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The big question.

Yesterday, along with about 8 other people, i went ice skating. It was heaps of fun seeing as i actually know how to ice skate. The let down was the people who failed to come, and the gay music they played. Now the painful part was stacking it twice - getting a lump on my ankle and a bruise on my knee. D: When it was time to go home, Zoe's parents picked us up, and i slept over her house. It was totally fun and hilarious. The next day, me and Zoe went bowling - and of course i won. (122 points) :D

Ice skating was good, but the other people there kinda sucked. The first time i stacked it, these stupid tarts just skate past me laughing.. only to find themselves on the floor later on. - Sweethearts, it's called Karma.
Oh and i also had a 'blush moment' when a guy accidentally rode into me and said "Sorry beautiful" -Like wow. That's probably the nicest thing a cute stranger could say. I don't mean to make a big fuss about it but come on, you don't hear that everyday.

Anyway, somethings have me thinking and questioning.
Not that I'm in love or anything, but what does 'love' and 'like' actually mean? People use this phrase very often, and I'm getting sick of it. How do you know that what you're feeling is true? Should everyone automatically love someone? It seriously confuses me.

To answer this question i googled it. This is an advice column:

Well when you like someone, it's usually the funny fireworks or nervous feelings you get. You could think about them all the time and or be shy around them - they are crushes, it happens all the time. Although it is possible to grow a crush or friendship into a relationship, it just takes time. If you don't know them all that well, you have to talk to them and get to know them better. Most of all, they have to like you back.

Love is when you've found a million things inside that person that you know you can't find anywhere else. You have real, substantial conversations all the time that bring you closer together. You respect each other and want to spend time together and make sacrifices. You have common values, not just interests, and you both want to grow and be better people for the other person. It's not always totally logical... you could meet someone who seems perfect for you, but they never really inspire you or capture your interest. It can also be misleading, because you could just think someones really hot, or they may have a nice body, and you want to be around them but that's not love - it's lust. It's a mix of solid ground and unexplainable clouds that you get to, and people say you'll know it when it hits you but I'm not so sure about that, I think it hits you first, then you wake up and realise it, but it's different for everyone, you'll have to find it in your own journey.

I'm sure after reading this you will understand, much like i have.

Oh great, now I'm going to look like a horror movie. I have mascara on (I've been out today) and my eyes are watery from writing and editing this damn thing.
Toodles.

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